What do child athletes think when their parents scream at officials, get kicked out of contests or taunt other players or parents?

If you ask your child you would be surprised at how much they notice and learn from your behavior. 

The role of organized sports and contests in the life of a child is vital to how they become as an adult.  It is proven that children with healthy activities are taught not only motor skills but also how to be better citizens, teamates and communicators.

I watched about 400 of my late son's soccer games and my daughters volleyball contests and skating routines and did find my emotions, at times, causing me to react in ways I found embarrassing.  Once I told the line judge in a soccer game that he blew the call.  He looked at me and said he may have, then offered me the flag and said have at it.  At that point I could only laugh, as he was a friend as well, and then thank him for bringing me back into the proper perspective.  From the moment on I realized the human element to sports and the need to show sportsmanship and civility as a parent to my son and daughter.  The last thing I wanted was to be a distraction to my children's play and an embarrassment to them.

The parent's role is to be a spectator, don't let yourself to become over-involved in your child's athletic experience.  Lend support and encouragement, that is all they need.  And, yes, be a positive example on the side line - for your child's sake!